F YMonth: July 23, 2021

Self-Compassion and Consistent Habits- An Essential Pairing for Emotional Health

As I waited for my friends to arrive for my birthday weekend I reflected on the path that I’ve been on over the last two years. The truth is I had some rocky years after my divorce in 2012 and I kept finding myself back in a place of darkness and self-loathing. If you scroll […]

4 Steps and 5 Questions for Taking Control of Your Emotions

I talk to so many people who feel a sense of desperation and hopelessness on their path to emotional freedom. I feel so much hope for them. The story generally goes something like this; “Cindy I started practicing and applying the tools you gave me and I was feeling so much better….and then X happened […]

“Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear?”

“Do you have the patience to wait until your mud settles and the water is clear? Can you remain unmoving until the right action arises by itself?” -Lao Tzu One of the guarantees in living is that I will be triggered by people, events, experiences. My path toward learning to assimilate these triggers into personal growth […]